This Wasn’t Supposed To Happen

This Wasn’t Supposed To Happen

What do you do when the thing that wasn’t supposed to happen… happens? THIS wasn’t supposed to happen. But it did. We never think THIS is as old as we’ll ever get, or THIS is the last time we’ll see someone. It’s never a part of the script. After my first cardiac...
Change…What It Is And How To Do It?

Change…What It Is And How To Do It?

Many people look at happiness as the measure of a good life.  However, the problem with happiness is that it’s circumstantial. It’s a state of mind. So it’s always contingent on events in your life aligning (and they often don’t). And if...
Who Are You?

Who Are You?

Who are you? Hint: You are not a role. I once asked a client, who was a soldier, who she will be once she leaves the military, and she paused. “I really don’t know,” she eventually said. Ask someone who they are and they’ll give you their...